Jealousy

I think i've got it figured out. I'm not sure if it will help, but I'm hoping writing it will help. It's 5:30 in the morning and I don't think I've slept more than a few hours tonight. Elizabeth told me David and Shea (whoever she is) stayed at joaquin's after going out last night and that she wa left alone all cozy on the couch while they both went to work. I don't know why this upset me so much, but it did.

So I started to think. Why is this really upsetting me? I feel like my mind is a projector sometimes. I merely have to project certain memories for myself to elicit certain emotions. For example the memories of David I have that mak me miss him most are from when we first started dating. And I think, "why do I dwell on THOSE memories?" so then I try to think of why we broke up to begin with and I picture his attitude that final night. I picture the way he acted every weekend around his friends. And it makes me understand that I know without a shadow of a doubt that we weren't mean to be together and three never wouldve worked.

So why am I up at 5:30 am dwelling on it? I think it's because I have a huge problem with rejection and I want the exact thing that I can't have. This explains why I get so put out by a man who throws himself at my feet. And it also explains why I'm so frustrated and hurt by David finding someone so quickly after being rid of me. She's getting him in that first amazing month when he can't keep his hands off her and his eyes rarely leave her face. She's getting the eat of him right now an I'm pissed about it. Who the hell is she? Some 21 (maybe) year old student who has nothing better to do but spend all of her time with him because she doesn't work. Daddy probably pays for everything. But I'm being presumptuous. I do know shE doesn't have a job and she's a student. Anyway it's really not about er. I'm not jealous of her because I dot want her. I'm jealous of him for being able to jus put it all behing him so easily.

I told Elizabeth I was ready to see him. Single. Guess that's not going to happen anytime soon. The worst part about this whole thing is I can't get away from him! Elizabeth and Joaquin are attached at the hip and she's always getting information that I don't really want to hear. She's going to meet this girl and form an opion about her and I'm not going to want to know, but I'll ask her anyway. Because I'm masochistic. I wish this could be like John where it was a clean break. There weren't any mutual friends I felt compelled to keep. I didn't have the opportunity to hear about john's new girlfriend. But here, in this situation, I have a link. I have a best friend who is constantly getting information fom HIS best friend. And I don't want to know...but I do. I wan to know factually what she's like and what they're like because then I can't sit up hypothesizing about it. I can't paint the worst picture in my head.

I was too good for him. Not in a mean way I just was. He's happy living paycheck to paycheck and partying an spelling once "ounce". He's ignorant and he doesn't care. I can't put my phone down because I LIKE to constantly learn. Elizabeth says I need a mantra for when I start thinking about him. Her suggestion was, "David didn't treat me right. I shouldn't waste my time thinking about him." I'll try it and we'll see.

I think I've thought it through enough to ge back to sleep...for a few hours at least.

p.s. I hope she's enjoying her minute and a half romps with him. Hah!